15 Things I’ve learned over 50 years of ministry
Chuck Swindoll
National Religious Broadcasters 2011
1. Tell people how you feel about them now, not later. Before it is too late.
2. Things I’m not even aware of are being noticed and remembered by others. Little things mean so much to people.
3. Being real is a lot better than trying to look pious. Authenticity. Pursuing holiness is good, but acting like you think you are holy stinks!
4. When things fit, they flow. When they don’t fit, they have to be forced. Forcing things is usually a mistake. Wait for God to make it fit. When God is in it there is a flow to it.
5. It doesn’t pay to talk anybody into or out of a big decision. A good book is “Leading Without Power” by Max De Pree
6. Days of maintenance are a lot more in number than days of magnificence.
7. Some people aren’t going to change no matter what. It’s our job to love them. It’s God’s job to change them.
8. I seldom feel sorry for things I did not say. When thinking about saying something on the ‘edge’ to someone, ask self: is it kind? Is it confidential? Is it necessary? Is it true? Am I the one who should say it?
9. Perception overshadows reality.
10. Time spent with my family is always worth it.
11. Grace is worth the risk. Extend grace to those who need it. Grace relieves guilt. It releases shame.
12. I’ve taken the words ‘never’ and ‘always’ out of my vocabulary.
13. Thinking theologically pays off big time. Dwelling on God’s sovereignty will save you much worry.
14. Some things are worth the sweat. Like admitting you are wrong. Always telling the truth. Admitting my own inability. Expressing gratitude. Being generous. Showing kindness.
15. You can’t beat having fun. Look for ways to help people life their spirits.
Good points – enough said
M
Posted: July 20th, 2011 under Family, Leadership, Life Stuff.
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